The Intentional Table

When You're Judged for How You Feed Your Kids

Nicole Cruz, MS, RDN Season 1 Episode 16

The holidays often bring more than just parties and sweets... they bring more people, more opinions, and a lot more eyes on how we’re parenting - especially around food.

For many parents, this time of year amplifies feelings of judgment around food: comments from grandparents, side-eyes from relatives, comparisons to cousins, or even the internal pressure we place on ourselves when our child eats differently than others.

In this episode, we’re talking about why feeding kids can feel so charged during the holidays, how diet culture and family dynamics play a role, and what it really means to feel confident in your approach - even when others don’t understand it.

We’ll explore how this work can feel countercultural, why judgment can bring up frustration, anger, sadness, or self-doubt, and how to stay grounded when you’re trying to protect your child’s relationship with food.

You’ll learn:

  • Why judgment around food feels especially intense during the holidays
  • Why this approach to feeding kids can feel uncomfortable - and why that doesn’t mean it’s wrong
  • How your own experiences with food growing up can get activated in these moments
  • The importance of getting clear on your values and approach with food
  • Practical, non-confrontational ways to set boundaries or redirect comments

If you’ve ever left a holiday gathering feeling upset, defensive, or questioning yourself as a parent, this episode is here to remind you: you know what’s best for your family. And you don’t need anyone else’s approval for how you parent around food.

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